This memorial weekend is tugging at my heartstrings at a greater intensity this year. This memorial weekend for me is not just to enjoy the extra day off.

I have been concentrating on appreciating my living friends, family and extended family.

We all have died to something inside ourselves and now we are sharing that “passing experience” with those who do not understand why we must change in one form or another.

We are living memorials also. May we appreciate each other in living so we can smile and laugh and hug one other. When it is time to remember those who have left us physically, we know that element of love has not died.

Care for our youth. Love and respect our elders. Remember who serve(d) and protect us.

PatriciaAn Raymundo-Schmidt lives in Lakeport.